VR Porn: Sex in the Third Dimension

With special glasses you become an actor in virtual reality sex movies. Our author tried VR porn: Is this real competition to reality? Our author tried VR porn!

I sit in a bare, uncomfortable waiting room when the announcement is made in English that all further appointments will be postponed by one hour. This doesn’t seem to bother the handsome guy sitting opposite me. On the contrary: He grins at me even more broadly. Apart from us, nobody else is here. He slowly approaches me, takes off his T-shirt and kneels down in front of me.

He kisses my thigh, his tongue slowly moves my leg up and down. A little later his tongue is dancing in my lap. Again and again the stranger looks up at me. I get hot and cold, I breathe harder. He stands up, kisses my breasts and comes very close to my face.

VR porn: Sex fantasies in a new dimension

It gets too much for me! I take my glasses off my head and flee back to reality. My living room looks as if nothing had happened: Next to me is the manual, a pile of laundry, and a cool herbal tea on the table. A virtual man and real excitement – was I just digitally satisfied in all seriousness? With virtual reality glasses on your head, you can fly through space from your sofa at home, dive into sunken shipwrecks for treasures – or live out your most secret sex fantasies.

“In the long run, there will be no more simple films: The future is experiences, interactive experiences”,

says Nicolas Chibac from the production company Spice VR in Hamburg. “The viewer experiences the films, he determines the dramaturgy instead of just watching. And a pioneer of this trend is the porn industry.

In my VR porn I become a star myself!

The 360-degree camera was positioned for shooting at the head height of an actor. When I now look down on myself with my glasses on, I look down on a strange human body.

  • Depending on which film you choose, you can slip into the role of a man, a woman, a transsexual.
  • Or as a voyeur you can observe the actors during couple sex or during an orgy.
  • With the movement of the head, the direction of the gaze can be controlled.
  • So I can choose whether I want to watch sex or rather inspect the interior of the room. In the next film I am a guy and look into the eyes of the woman who kneels in front of me.
  • So that’s how I look when I give a blowjob.

Slightly irritated I change the film. Now I lie on a bed, have big breasts and a well trained belly, on which my gaze gets stuck. A pretty woman comes up to me and smiles at me while she straps on a strap-on. I smile back expectantly … suddenly the screen gets dark – the connection to my smartphone is interrupted.

VR Pornos: Sex with still faulty technology – those are the problems!

That the “thread” sometimes breaks is still the smallest technical problem with VR.

The glasses have been around since the nineties, but even the youngest generation doesn’t create a perfect illusion with their image quality. With many glasses, only the focal point is sharp, the rest blurs and flickers.
Even the head tracking algorithm doesn’t always work so well – sometimes the image doesn’t follow the head movement fast enough. This delay can cause some nausea. This is why VR porn is often filmed from the perspective of a passive – usually male – body, which is usually spoiled lying down by one or more women.

In some films, the transitions of the individual cameras can be seen, which destroys immersion: sinking into the virtual world. But that’s not all:
For smooth enjoyment, prospective customers need a smartphone of a certain size – or even better, a powerful PC.

“It’s a bit like 1995, when the Internet started. We are in the first year of a new technology,” says Maurice Op de Beek of the Dutch sextoy manufacturer Kiiroo.

The company develops remote-controlled sex toys for people in long-distance relationships. Now they cooperate with the big VR porn producers and synchronize their dildos and artificial vaginas with VR movies. In sync with the film, they give off stimuli, contract, vibrate … This year, the Japanese sextoy company Tenga released the full-body suit “Illusion VR”, which, synchronized with films, massages, vibrates and manually satisfies. In Japan the enthusiasm for such toys is so great that this June a VR porn fair had to be cancelled because of the big crowd.

VR Porno: What does my boyfriend say?

Instead of sex suit I rather invite my friend to me – and ask him to do what the actors in the movies supposedly do with me. At first I ask nicely and carefully: “Could you please put your hand on my chest and grab it?”, but soon my orders become shorter and more specific – and I sharper. For fractions of a second I am no longer sure who the warm hand on my body actually belongs to.

When I stop giving instructions and feel someone penetrate me while at the same time I see myself being pampered with my hand, I have to smile: reality and virtual reality are blurring …

Is that now the future of porn? Or the future of sex? For some it certainly sounds tempting to be able to decide shortly before coitus who you want to become intimate with. Or change partners with just a few clicks. Sex therapist and graduate psychologist Miriam Kegel, on the other hand, sees this with concern: “VR sex is comfortable, you don’t have to exert yourself and satisfy other people’s needs. For many people, normal pornography is already a substitute for sexuality. VR porn will make this even worse.” She sees in the new films a clear competition to the partnership relationship. Porn addiction is anyway one of the most frequent concerns with which men in particular come into their practice. VR could make it even more difficult for real sex to exist alongside virtual sex.

My conclusion for VR Porno & Sex

Experts agree that VR glasses will spread like HD televisions did recently – as soon as there are more films and the prices for glasses (see left) drop. Porn could help VR to make a breakthrough. However, the technical problems still cloud the enjoyment. In addition, the passivity of the actors in many films can be boring in the long run. For me, the experience with my boyfriend was the best. There were the digital stimuli, at the same time I could taste him, smell him, feel him. So the combination of VR porn and real sex gave us a hot night of love – even if the glasses on the other person’s head actually look a bit funny … But who knows, maybe the question will soon be part of the good tone in our bedrooms: “Does it bother you if I have my Oculus on?”

The 10 best sites for VR Porn

Watching porn in VR is probably one of the most intense experiences virtual reality has to offer. Already in this early stage the market is so unmanageable that it is difficult to separate the wheat from the chaff.

Table of Contents

1 Pornhub VR: The free introduction
2 BadoinkVR: The Classic
3 WankzVR: He who seeks, finds
4 Virtual Real Porn: Name is Progamm
5 Naughty America VR: Full of envelopes
6 HoloGirlsVR: Experts among themselves
7 AliceX VR: Virtual Live Girls
8 Sex Like Real: Almost like in real life
9 Czech VR: Holidays in the East
10 Fulldive VR: The Google Solution

This article is part of our extensive VR Porn Guide 2018, where you will find all the essential information you need for an optimal experience. If you are still looking for a suitable pair of VR glasses, we can also help you.

  • So that you don’t have to dig in vain through half the Internet, we present here the 10 most recommendable sites for VR porn.
  • No matter if you own a PlayStation VR, Oculus Rift, HTC Vive or Gear VR or Google Daydream, here you will find the best options for tingling VR eroticism.
  • The VR industry is still in its infancy, so that you can expect many more VR porn sites in the near future. So check back again at a later date.

Pornhub VR: The free introduction

Pretty much everyone’s heard of Pornhub. The Mecca of free pornography has been offering its own category for Virtual Reality for some time now, in which there are already countless clips. So, if you want to enjoy a PornVrMovie – Pornhub is your first stop.

The extensive adjustment possibilities on the page ensure that every imaginable fantasy is covered here. For example, you can search for professional or amateur videos, set the length and of course determine what kind of porn you want to watch at all.

However, the offer of high-quality VR movies on Pornhub is currently still very limited. Most videos are either clips from free promo clips or only a few minutes long. Where else you can watch free VR porn, we’ll tell you elsewhere.

BadoinkVR: The Classic

When it comes to VR porn, there is hardly a site with as much experience as BadoinkVR. Accordingly, you’ll also find lots of videos from different genres, most of which are aimed at a heterosexual audience. Most of them are behind a pay barrier, but there are free teasers so you know what you’re putting your money on.

In 2016, Badoink VR won the coveted XBIZ Award for Best Adult Site of the Year. Currently Badoink offers more than 100 different scenes with many well-known stars of the porn industry. A new video is added almost every week. Last year, a new camera system was also integrated to guarantee an even higher resolution than before.

  1. Navigation is very simple. You can search for individual performers or use ready-made categories.
  2. When you sign up for a membership you also have the option to get a Google Cardboard sent to your home. Supported are the Oculus Rift (resolution 3840×1920 at 60fps), the Gear VR (2880×1440 at 60fps) and Google Cardboard (1920×960 at 60fps).
  3. To play the movies you need a suitable VR video player, but BadoinkVR itself recommends downloading the Free VR Player for smartphones.

Although Badoink VR doesn’t necessarily lead the rankings of VR porn sites, it is very high on the list. The regular updates, the support of most common VR glasses as well as the easy handling guarantee an exquisite experience. For the high quality standard you have to dig relatively deep into your pockets, because BadoinkVR currently costs 24.95 $ per month. You can get your annual subscription for $100.

WankzVR: Who searches, finds

Studio WankzVR won the 2016 Xbiz Award for Best Porn Scene. The catalogue features some of the industry’s most popular stars, including actresses such as Riley Reid, Yhivi and Ashley Adams. It also serves the niche market. Some videos are even shot from a female perspective. Also positive is the length of the videos, which can sometimes be an hour or more.

Currently, the studio offers over 120 VR scenes, and new ones are added twice a week. Another positive aspect is that WankzVR is very responsive to the wishes of its community, which they can express in the forum on the site.

Almost all important VR headsets are supported as they are: PlayStation VR, Oculus Rift, HTC Vive, Samsung Gear VR and Google Cardboard. Only Google Daydream owners are currently looking into the tubes. You can also choose whether you want to download the videos or stream them. While some other providers require a lot of trial and error before the movies can be played properly in the video player of your choice, WankzVR has hardly had any problems so far.

All in all WankzVR offers a full VR experience, which is available for download as well as streaming. The scaling of the videos also works flawlessly. Only the search function needs an urgent revision, because at the moment almost no filters are available, so that the videos can be arranged only according to date or popularity.

WankzVR offers several price options, depending on the duration of your membership. A trial account for two days costs just $1.99, while a monthly subscription costs $19.99. Three months costs $13.32 and in the case of an annual subscription the price drops to $6.57 per month. There is also the option to add the partner site MilfVR for a surcharge.

Virtual Real Porn: Name is Program

Virtual Real Porn is one of the oldest sites for immersive eroticism and is responsible for the production of some of the highest quality VR porn. Currently there are well over 200 scenes on offer, with two new videos being added every week. In addition to well-known European actors you will also find Asian stars and a section for cosplay fetishists. The site has its own video player, the VirtualRealPlayer, which can also be synchronized with partialildonics such as Lovesense or Kiiroo.

The videos are available for every conceivable headset both for streaming and downloading, whereby the resolution varies depending on the VR glasses. The size of the download also depends on the headset used. While videos for Gear VR are about 2 to 3 gigabytes in size, a download for Oculus Rift and HTC Vive is about 5 GB for a 20 to 30 minute scene.

One of the biggest strengths of Virtual Real Porn is the presence of numerous filter options. So you can search for a certain model or genre as well as determine the type of VR integration. Here you have the choice between scenes in 120, 180 and even 360 degrees. The clear design facilitates the navigation of the page enormously.

Another advantage of Virtual Real Porn are the flexible prices. So you can test the offer for 2,95 € for two days. After that you have to pay 19,95 € per month. In addition, there is a slightly cheaper offer of 9.95 €, but you can only stream the videos. 34,95 € grants you access for 90 days. All subscriptions can be cancelled at any time.

Alternatively, you can also pay a one-time fee of 89.95 € for a whole year. In these cases, the subscription will not be automatically renewed.

Naughty America VR: Plenty of envelopes

At the beginning of this year Naughty America won the XBIZ Award 2017 in the category Best Adult Site. Naughty America’s offer bundles a massive collection of over 7600 two-dimensional porn movies as well as more than 100 VR scenes, each about 20 minutes long. Once a week, two videos are added to the VR range. In terms of scope, this is clearly the favourite.

However, there is no preview option, which makes the search somewhat more difficult. All in all, the usability is a bit behind in direct comparison with sites like BadoinkVR or Virtual Real Porn. Because we can choose from an impressive repertoire of filters and categories, but the essential information for VR (180 or 360 degrees, seating position, frame rate, etc.) are only available on the respective info page of a video.

  1. All Naughty America VR videos support Google Cardboard, Samsung Gear VR, Oculus Rift and HTC Vive. The video quality is of the usual high quality, but varies in resolution depending on the VR glasses used.
  2. Since Naughty America VR is only a small part of a much larger service, the membership options also provide access to partner sites. On the one hand the selection is even better, on the other hand higher costs are connected with it.
  3. For example, a $1.95 three-day trial subscription offers access to selected scenes in 4k and HD, but includes only one VR scene. A seven-day subscription for $4.95 is identical in selection.

The monthly membership, on the other hand, offers full and unlimited access to all 47 pages as well as the possibility to stream the videos directly. The cost is $24.95 in this case. An annual subscription is only $5.95 per month, but you will have to pay the full amount of $71.40 all at once. On top of that, you can add 8 more partner sites, including Real Teens VR. The annual subscription then costs $19.95 per month and is also paid with a single amount of $239.40.

HoloGirlsVR: Experts among themselves

HoloGirlsVR currently offers almost 150 scenes and releases about 3 new ones every week. The offer covers a wide range of tastes, because you won’t find standardised VR porn here. HoloGirls VR is primarily aimed at a niche audience.

Most movies last about 20 minutes or less, and the download is about 2 gigabytes. However, there is no streaming option when you’re on the move, so there’s plenty of storage space on your smartphone. After the download you open the scene in a VR video player of your choice.

  1. The search function on the page works very well. You can sort the clips according to categories or filter the whole catalogue according to the newest or best rated videos. A simple alphabetical order is also possible.
  2. With the exception of PlayStation VR, all common headsets are supported. The extensive VR features also deserve a positive mention. So we can choose between 220 and 360 scenes. Some videos also offer different binaural sound options.

However, the quality of some videos leaves a lot to be desired, as there are many older uploads, whose VR technology was simply not yet mature enough. In order to get the best possible immersion, you should stick to the younger uploads and download the provided demo clips beforehand.

Currently a monthly access costs 24.95 $ and a yearly subscription 71.40 $. Both offers also offer the possibility to get a free pair of VR glasses.

AliceX VR: Virtual Live Girls

AliceX VR is one of the few livecam platforms for virtual reality. Unlike traditional livecam sites, registration with AliceX VR is free of charge, so you’ll get insight into the essential features before a payment becomes due. AliceX VR runs in your browser and supports Google Cardboard, Gear VR, Oculus Rift and HTC Vive.

  • However, the selection of available models is very small at this time, which is all the more important as there are usually never more than 3 or 4 models online at the same time. Fortunately, there is a calendar that informs about upcoming performances.
  • Despite the successful technical implementation of 360-degree streams, the small selection reduces the overall impression. Those who expect the variety of conventional livecam platforms will probably be disappointed.
  • The prices are calculated with prepaid coins and vary per minute depending on the show.

Sex Like Real: Almost like in real life

As the name suggests, Sex Like Real wants to inspire its users with lifelike VR experiences. The selection of the videos is enormous and is offered in its own app. The app searches the Internet for suitable content and offers films that are not available on any other site. Streaming via app is also possible.

In addition to conventional porn, Sex Like Real is also dedicated to genres such as fetish, BDSM and gay porn. The extensive selection of VR features allows you to search for a video that is perfectly adapted to your needs. So we can determine not only the resolution but also the desired sitting position and field of view.

The user interface of the app convinces with its comfortable design and stands out from most of the sites tested here. Sex Like Real is available for almost all VR glasses, only PlayStation VR and Google Daydream are empty.

The use of Sex Like Real itself is free of charge. If the videos come from external studios, prices between 4 and 10 $ are due.

Czech VR: Holidays in the East

Czech VR is specialized in Eastern European models and currently offers more than 130 VR scenes with mostly Czech amateur actresses. In addition, there are the two partner sites Czech VR Fetish and Czech VR Casting, which can also be watched with a membership. So we get a total of more than 270 scenes and this is one of the biggest offers for VR porn at the moment, which is supplemented every week by 4 more videos.

  • Of all the studios listed here Czech VR offers one of the best video quality, which is confirmed by the numerous positive feedback from the users. All common VR glasses are supported.
  • The European servers also guarantee fast downloads.
  • The distortion effects of some older videos, however, are negative, as the untrained actors sometimes get too close to the camera. Most scaling problems you can get under control with a good VR video player.

Czech VR, on the other hand, scores less in terms of price. A monthly access costs 24,95 $, for three months 49,95 $ are due and a half year costs 84,95 $.

Fulldive VR: The Google solution

Last but not least, we would like to talk about an offer that explicitly addresses owners of a Google Cardboard or Daydream. Fulldive VR is a full-fledged video player that offers a huge catalogue of VR videos. Among them are also numerous 360-degree porn movies.

Also you can watch videos downloaded from other places and even streams on other websites are possible. It’s amazingly easy to see the large selection, because Fulldive VR offers numerous categories, including the “sexy” section, where you can find the videos in question. These are mostly camgirl videos, but there are also more spicy scenes.

Production of VR porn in Berlin The dream of sex with the avatar

Texas Patti dances naked to her observer. She winds herself seductively and finally sits down on the customer’s lap. Texas Patti doesn’t care what she does with whom. It’s not really her who does it, but the avatar – the computer-animated fake figure – the porn actress. Sex is only real in the mind of the visitor of this virtual world. The Berlin startup Memento 3D has created this vision of the (porn) future.

The stripping Texas Patti is the first version of it. At some point, everyone could have a realistic avatar created for them to experience sexual adventures on the Internet. “The product has the potential to become a revolution,” says Memento boss Tobias Platte.

  • The product is called vrXcity, an online world in which people can interact with the avatars of real people.
  • They can touch them, spread their legs, grab their hips, move and more. The technology for immersing yourself in these worlds already exists and could possibly become more widespread soon.
  • The currently still quite expensive VR glasses – VR stands for virtual reality – enable the wearer to move through lifelike 360-degree worlds.

The user has the feeling of actually being in these rooms – dizziness included. Using remote controls that appear as hands in front of the user’s eyes, he can move himself just like objects or avatars – in the case of vrXcity, these are sex partners. 700 porn actresses have already been scanned, including the Germans Texas Patti and Micaela Schäfer as well as the US starlet Jessica Drake.

“The erotic industry is a driver for new technologies,” says Platte.

A lot of development work

Pornography has already helped the VHS video cassettes to break through. Now VR is to follow. The company of the trained banker invested a lot of development work to scan the “girls”, as Platte says, down to the smallest detail and animate them in a lifelike way. In the future, the program will interact with sex toys to translate optics into physical experiences. Among other things, Platte speaks of “stick-on attachments” for men. For the start in autumn, 200,000 new users are to find their way into vrXcity every month. Platte does not see any ethical problems with his “entertainment product”.

He says: “It won’t be able to replace real sex.” Sociologist Sven Lewandowski, who specializes in sexual issues, sees this new technology as a new form of pornography. “Two sexual worlds now seem to exist: that of pornography and that of everyday sexuality, which is not meant to be derogatory.

There is no evidence that pornography suppresses couple sexuality or shapes how people have sex. The scientist at the University of Würzburg is sceptical as to whether VR glasses and accessories will turn sexuality into a mass phenomenon.

Internet currency called Redbux

Memento is financing the further development of its vrXcity by selling its own Internet currency called Redbux. The limited tokens could increase in value if they were to establish themselves – as planned by Platte – as a means of payment for erotic products on the Internet. Dozens of partner companies want to accept this new currency in the future. In addition, vrXcity customers will be able to pay the actresses behind the avatars directly.

In the advance sale phase, which ended on Sunday, investors drew 3.1 billion Redbux according to company information. There will be no more than 20 billion Redbux. Memento already has more than 20 million euros available for the further development of his virtual sex world. Platte says he is “very satisfied”. He is not the only one who believes in his vision of the future of pornography.

VR porn: How it affects the human brain

One of the biggest VR porn production companies wants to find out how VR porn affects consumers – and what appeals to them the most. These are the results.

Five men aged between 18 and 45 watched an eight-minute erotic film on a monitor for an experiment by the VR porn company “BadoinkVR”. The Danish research company “Neurons” measured the brain activity of the test persons simultaneously with an EEG device. The emotional reaction and the degree of excitement were tested.

After the brain activity returned to normal after the TV porn, the subjects were asked to watch the same film again – this time with VR glasses. The subjects were encouraged not to masturbate in between. Otherwise the research results would be falsified.

Realistic perspective increases excitement

VR porn is said to have activated the brain more than the flat version on the monitor – no wonder, thanks to the panoramic view with head movement, the test subjects have to process considerably more visual information. The EEG recorded an increase in excitement, especially in the scene, in which the woman sits down on the male actor.

  1. The decisive factor for this is the realistic perspective, so the assumption. However, this seems to have a general effect: if the subject in the film simply looked around in the surroundings, his excitement also increased.
  2. However, if one considers the entire trial period, the excitement of the participants in front of the monitor and with the VR glasses was almost identical.

“In interviews, the participants reported that they felt more involved in VR. They liked the effect,” Alexander Silva Lopera, neuroanalyst at Neurons, told The Daily Dot.

At the beginning of the VR video, the cognitive load of the test persons was above the threshold perceived as pleasant and relaxed. This was sometimes due to the fact that several test persons were VR newcomers. After some familiarization, the cognitive load decreased.

VR porn still has room for improvement

According to Lopera, there’s still a lot to find out about VR pornography: “The way I see it, it’s one thing to say you like VR porn and another thing to change your behavior, pay for it, and actually use that experience. We have to figure out how to make the experience simple and appealing for people.”

With five participants, the study was, according to Lopera, “a kind of pilot study” that does not reflect a cross-section of the population. Nevertheless, the BadoinkVR test could provide some insight into the effect of the films on the company’s own clientele.

From VR porn to robo sex: these are five trends in the porn industry

  • Digitalization is making its way into the porn industry
  • This is how trends like VR porn or robo sex emerge.
  • In addition, social movements are reflected in pornography

In Berlin begins on Thursday (11 October), the erotic trade fair Venus will once again begin in Berlin, where every year trends and novelties from the erotic sector will be presented. Digitalization plays an increasingly important role in this area, because digital innovations also dominate the porn industry.

But it is not only technological innovations such as VR glasses that are finding their way into pornography, social changes caused by the women’s movement are also reflected.

These are five trends in pornography:

VR porn/porn gaming

The introduction of virtual reality into everyday life has long since begun and apparently does not stop at the bedroom either. According to a report in the “Süddeutsche Zeitung“, more than 76 million VR glasses will be sold by 2020. One of the biggest drivers in this area, alongside the gaming industry, is pornography.

With VR glasses or porn gaming, the user should have an experience that can hardly be described. “It is stunning what the customer can experience with these technical possibilities. You have to experience it,” explained Todd Glider, producer of VR films at BadoinkVR, on the fringes of a technology fair in Las Vegas.

Interactive Porn

As in many other areas, users of pornography are increasingly less interested in off-the-shelf products than in an individual experience. The porn industry reacts with so-called interactive porn.

As in the film “InTERActive” by director Quinn Roberts from 2007, viewers not only have the opportunity to influence the sexual action, but also the plot of the film.

Feminist/Female-Driven Porn

Social changes are also reflected in the porn industry. What used to be a male-dominated industry is now more and more determined by women, as Jacky St. James, winner of the award for the best director in the industry, explains. The market opens up for female entrepreneurs who make a name for themselves with creativity.

She told the magazine “Men’s Health”: “More and more women are also working behind the camera”.

Erika Lust also belongs to this movement. The Swedish director and film producer has been mixing up the scene with feminist porn for years.

Amateur Porn

Amateur porn has been one of the trends determining the porn industry for years: “Nowadays, erotic fans want the housewife from their surroundings,” Maximilian Peldszus told the “stern” as early as 2016 on the occasion of Venus in Berlin. The 28-year-old Hamburg native is the operational director of an erotic community that also offers amateur videos. This is about the experience of lifelike eroticism.

One of the most famous German amateur stars in Germany is Schnuggie91. Together with Micaela Schäfer and others, she represents this year’s Venus Fair from 11 to 14 October.

Robo sex

The trend of the so-called robot sex goes hand in hand with a further development of sex dolls. They are no longer cold and rigid, they can speak and feel warm. In addition, various companies are in the process of developing dolls that can react specifically to the wishes of their owners.

Disgusting? No! Everything you need to know about the sex fetish

What is not possible for some during sex, is pure pleasure for others. A sex fetish in which the spirits split: Golden Shower.

Contents

  1. What is a Golden Shower?
  2. Where does the Golden Shower end up?
  3. Why Golden Shower?
  4. Where should the Golden Shower take place?
  5. Just pee on it? These are the rules for the Golden Shower

What is a Golden Shower?

Golden Shower means nothing else than that one partner is poking at the other to increase sexual desire. This sex fetish is also called champagne irradiation or urophilism (preference for urine).

Where does the Golden Shower end up?

Golden Shower lovers find it exciting when they urinate on their partner or are themselves hit by the urine stream – where exactly depends on personal preferences. Some like it when the golden shower runs down the body, others prefer to get it directly into the mouth.

Why Golden Shower?

For most people, the fascination for the Golden Shower is connected with the game of power and submission. The passive, submissive partner, the masochist, enjoys giving up control and being pissed on. The active partner with a tendency to sadism finds domination particularly exciting. Many people not only feel the urination itself, but also the taste and smell very pleasurable.

Where should the Golden Shower take place?

One thing is clear: urine never ends up where it should. So you should lay out your bed (or other furniture with textiles) with foil beforehand. Otherwise you simply go straight to the shower or bathtub – nothing can go wrong then.

Just pee on it? These are the rules for the Golden Shower

The sex fetish with the Golden Shower has its origin in the BDSM scene and accordingly the same rules apply here as with bondage games and Co. – in other words: always with mutual agreement. So it must be clear that the partner is also ready for the Golden Shower. The best thing to do is to make a Safeword just in case.

Also important to know: Lust or not, urine is a “waste product”, so the urinating partner should be healthy. Although urea is usually sterile, this only applies if you don’t have any health problems. Especially hepatitis B and some venereal diseases can be transmitted so quickly. The best thing to do before your Golden Showe experiment is a health check with your doctor – you don’t have to tell him what you’re going to do afterwards…

What is a Golden Shower?

What is an absolute no-go during sex for some, means total ecstasy for others. A very delicate sex fetish is called Golden Shower. You always wanted to know what that is? Here we explain what lies behind the practice.

This is what you mean by Golden Shower

Golden Shower is a sexual practice in which you pee on your partner or are pissed on by your partner. This practice is also known as champagne irradiation and is also called urophilism (the preference for urine).

Lovers of this practice find it sexually exciting to urinate on the partner or to receive the urine. Some people like to take in urine orally or feel it all over their body. The fascination lies in playing with power and submission. As a submissive part or masochist one enjoys being pissed on and with a predisposition to sadism the excitement consists in dominating and humiliating the other. Also the smell and taste of the urine is felt by many as very pleasant and lustful.

In the BDSM scene, of course, the rule of mutual agreement applies. Urophilists (as urine lovers call themselves) easily find like-minded people within the community and agree on corresponding practices and integrate this into their role-plays. Outside the scene it is not easy to find a partner who prefers a Golden Shower or is willing to try one out. Here, of course, the principle of mutual agreement applies.

The Golden Shower is only one of many fetishes in the BDSM. Have you become curious? Then discover more pleasurable practices here.

This is what you should know about the execution of the Golden Shower

You could imagine trying out the Golden Shower or did your partner give you the idea? Then I would like to give you some things on the way, which you should consider thereby.

#1 Agreement

It is very important that you make the whole thing consensual. If your partner has been wanting you to pee on him for a long time and it is absolutely unpleasant for you, then you have to tell him that. It is important that you are honest and do not humiliate yourself for his sake if that goes against your grain. On the other hand, you should accept it if your partner doesn’t want to try it out. Everyone has certain limits in bed.

#2 Health

Urine consists of waste products from the human body. They are excreted because humans no longer need them. Urea is usually sterile and should not cause major damage to health if it is taken in again. However, it is also not advisable to drink large amounts of it. Doctors advise against drinking the urine of sick people. People infected with hepatitis B can pass on the disease in this way. In naturopathy there are followers of urine therapy who hope that regular drinking of urine will cure various ailments. However, this is not medically proven. In general, you should only practice this practice if both of you are healthy and have no sexually transmitted diseases.

#3 Implementation

If you decide with your partner to implement the Golden Shower, you should either do so in the bathroom or cover your bed accordingly well with foil or a waterproof sheet*. Latex is also suitable. It is very popular in the scene because it exudes a great fascination. It is also easy to rinse off. Expect some things to go wrong and end up over the bed and on the floor. So as a beginner you might want to try it out in the shower first. There is no danger of ruining valuable carpet here. For a start, you might also be fascinated by watching each other urinate.

Do you often wonder what sex fantasy most men have? Surprise him with one of the following scenarios and bring new momentum into your love life.

Golden Shower in the media

In January 2017, Donald Trump was also confronted with the term. Shortly before his inauguration as President of the United States of America, a spy report was published stating that during a business visit to Russia in 2013 he allegedly paid prostitutes for pee sex games in his hotel room at Ritz-Carlton.

Carrie Bradshaw (Sarah Jessica Parker) also wrote the column “To Pee Or Not To Pee?” in the series “Sex and the City” after a brief affair with a politician. (peeing or not peeing) about the fetish. When her new Beau expressed the wish to get pissed on by Carrie, she decided against it and was therefore promptly dumped by her boyfriend.

Sex fetishes like the Golden Shower are not everyone’s cup of tea. Many find this practice rather turning off and unnatural. Within the fetish scene, however, such practices are considered perfectly normal. If you are single and looking for new adventures, you will surely find like-minded people in your city in online forums. If you’re in a relationship, there’s no reason why you shouldn’t try it if your partner is open to it and agrees.

Watersports, Golden Showers or Golden Sparkling Waters

Mr President, I would like to talk to you today about, say, a delicate subject. Water Sports, NS, Wet Games, Golden Showers, Pee Games. I have to admit that I first asked myself if a column in the context of this magazine would not go too far. After all, you are here on the GQ website and are not holding an old edition of the “Happy Weekend” in your hands. But then I thought about how many men already told me about their preference for such games. No freaks. But men like you. Bankers, CEOs, students, editors, mechatronics engineers and music managers. So I thought to myself: Let’s just try it out. If you have an affinity for golden showers, I will provide you with a little Beginner’s Guide. And when you become dirty, just stop reading and click here.

I couldn’t understand for a long time that it excites people to include urine in their love play. “It is yellow, makes everything wet and uncomfortable and stinks. My personal attitude towards it to this day. But the curiosity about everything that is offside and forbidden, as well as encounters with people who can’t imagine anything more beautiful than to roll over their partner or let themselves be struck up, made sure that I – if not enthusiasm – at least developed understanding for this fetish.

A bit forbidden

The preference for urine has many names. Scientists speak of urophilism or undinism. If even the swallowing of urine excites, the whole thing is called urophagy.

But for many it is not just a matter of lukewarm water. My friend Adrian, for example, turns it on by watching women pee in the wild, in the park or at festivals. “This crouched posture has something so vulnerable that I like it very much,” Adrian once enthused about me, and for the first time I was able to get almost a bit of romance out of the subject of golden showers.

Another variation that I find hot, at least in theory, is called “Female Desperation” and describes the desperation of a woman who has to pee but has no opportunity to do so. Because she’s stuck in traffic with her car or waiting for her favourite act at the “Rock am Ring” in front of the Main Stage. And then, when the pressure gets too high, they can’t help but just let it run. Many a fan of this fetish is also not interested in wetting himself, but in the aforementioned despair in the face of the woman, the moment she suspects that she will not be able to endure it much longer. To the shame of having to do something forbidden at once. And to watch the inner misery turn into relief, into the happiness of the piss that all of us know.

This is how you approach the golden shower games

Everything sounds exciting, but would you like to have some concrete tips for the first NS session with your sweetheart? Well, please:

  1. as unromantic as it sounds: tell your partner in advance exactly what you like about Water Sports. Would you like to pee on her or the other way around? Do you just want to watch her urinate? Whatever it is, ask her for permission in advance. Believe me, anyone who pisses on me out of nowhere will first be kicked out on edge and then be banned for life.
  2. Please do NOT pee into the sensual bubble bath for two, unless our partner has expressly asked for it.
  3. you should make the first attempts absolutely in the shower or however in the fresh air. Because a fully shipped bed sheet and a damp mattress are anything but hot.
  4. drink plenty of water beforehand, at least 1.5 litres, preferably water. This ensures sufficient pressure on the bladder. In addition, it dilutes the urine and takes away its strong smell.
  5. speaking of which: Morning urine is taboo! Much too strict. Eew. Only suitable for people with Only suitable for people with the corresponding fetish.
  6. should the active role irritate you: Do not put yourself under pressure. Many find it difficult to let it run before the partner. That is quite natural. Take a shower together, listen to the crackling of the water, relax and then … let it go!

If your partner has approached you with a corresponding desire for NS-games, you should try out in which role you feel most comfortable. And if you notice that mutual wetting is so nothing at all for you, that is also okay. Talk to your partner about it and be honest. Maybe you just leave the bathroom for a while.

5 sex positions you really have to trust each other for

The more comfortable you feel with a partner, the more you can heat up the bed stories with a little experimentation. Haven’t we all been embarrassed by one or two things in bed? First dirty-talk attempts, noises that are more reminiscent of the toilet than of wicked-sexy film scenes, and positions that end in calf cramps.

However, the fact that Dirty Talk and a change of position have been tried at all speaks for a certain amount of mutual trust and the necessary ability to let go. Who can then laugh about such “misadventures” with each other, is probably ready for the following sex positions.

The disc chest

Support the ground with your hands while your partner lifts his legs at the ankles and penetrates from behind. Who a. in view of the lurch, which one discovers in this head-down position under the bed, can repress the thought of vacuuming in the second and b. no problem with being made an object, a new, orgiastic-good world is open to him.

The Foot-Job

The foot fetish counterpart to the hand-job, instead of the hands is “worked” with the soles of the feet – and this fetish is not so rare! Many pendants don’t even value clean, freshly pedicured feet. So a couple who dare to play a few foot games is on the right track. Requirements: Lubricant gel and well-trained calf muscles.

The Golden Shower

We say it straightforward: The idea of urinating on one’s partner is not everyone’s cup of tea – nor does it have to be. But who doesn’t find the idea completely absurd for himself and his counterpart – why not? In any case, it is a sign that you are very close to each other and that nothing is embarrassing in front of each other. 4.

The spider

  • From the construction equipment (point 1) to the insect: The spider is probably one of the weirdest sex positions humans have ever thought of! It needs an above-average level of fitness, but instead guarantees that you have something to laugh about.
  • That’s how it works: The partner on all fours, but belly up, you are in the same position above him. And so you crawl into the sunset together. Whoever survives this position without strains and cramps cannot be shaken by anything in a relationship.

 The Kiss of Aphrodite

A position for sex without male participation. Why you need a good portion of trust here? Three words: threesome, position 69, a strap-on dildo.

So if you want to know how great the mutual trust, the respect for individual limits and the joy of experimentation are, take action. If none of the participants completely unravels or doesn’t get over themselves with laughter, then it looks good. For a partnership for life. Or at least for damn good sex.

The top 10 positions for woman’s orgasm

Fun with the best positions for YOU! We have chosen the top 10 orgasm guarantors for women among the most popular positions from the Kamasutra. Let’s get started – those who master these positions experience the orgasm especially intensively.

The Kamasutra is, by the way, one of the most influential works in world history. Originally written in Sanskrit, over the years it has been translated into almost every language in the world. No wonder, after all, the Kamasutra contains detailed instructions on erotic positions.

Do not panic: Contrary to their reputation, Kamasutra postures are not always complicated! We assure you: The postures we have chosen for you can be performed by anyone – and enjoyed. Feeling of pleasure guaranteed! So don’t wait any longer: Here’s the exact description of the best positions for you!

1st place: The leg extension

The woman lies on her back and puts one leg on the shoulder of her partner. The man kneels in front of her and sits on her outstretched leg. He penetrates her while holding her leg on his shoulder with one hand.
The woman has both hands free and can stroke herself or her partner as she pleases. And he enjoys the sight…

2nd place: The 8 number

  • This position resembles the missionary. But the detail, in this case movement, is what matters, and that is what she is allowed to determine here!
  • The woman lies on her back with her legs slightly bent and open. He lies over her and leans on his outstretched arms.
  • While he penetrates her, she directs his hip movements with her hands, so that he makes lustful circles of 8 in her. This is not only erotic, but also romantic, because the lying 8 symbolizes infinity…
  • Tip: a pillow under her bottom helps him to penetrate her more easily.

3rd place: The seesaw

Also in this Kamasutra position the woman has the reins in her hand, but also he can have a say.

The man sits on the floor (or a firm mattress!), one leg is stretched out, the other slightly bent to keep the balance better.

The woman sits on him so that he can penetrate her. While she makes lustful movements with her hips, he holds her at her bottom to reach the deep penetration of his penis. The little plus: he can kiss her breasts…

4th place: The house number

  • She lies on her back with her legs bent. He kneels over her, between her legs. Now she lifts her hip and clings to his hips with her legs crossed so that he can penetrate her.
  • The plus: This position is very intense for her, as it allows him to penetrate particularly deeply. She moves her hip like a wave, sometimes in one direction, sometimes in the other…

5th place: The clip

  • He lies on his back with his legs outstretched and closed. She sits on him and leans her upper body backwards, supporting herself with her hands.
  • In this sex position, the woman determines the rhythm with her pelvic movements.
  • The man can enjoy the sight of her breasts and stimulate her clitoris with his free hands.

6th place: The Nirvana

Be lies with outstretched legs on the back, the arms lie outstretched over the head. He lies down on her and penetrates her. As he moves within her, she tenses all muscles, giving the arms to the upper bed frame. This intensifies the penetration effect and stimulates the clitoris naturally.

7th place: The butterfly

The woman lies on her back, her legs wide open. He kneels in front of her and lifts her legs slightly and holds her by her thighs. Now he can penetrate her with deep shocks and bring her to her climax. This position is exciting for him because none of her movements escape his gaze. And it’s a fun position for her because she can relax completely and enjoy his masculine power.

8th place: Safe

This is the famous missionary position: She lies on her back and spreads her legs. He lies down on her and penetrates her while she clings to him with her legs. In this position the partners can stroke each other to the climax.

9th place: The cartridge belt

  • She’s lying on her back with her legs bent. He kneels in front of her and pushes his thighs under her hip so that he can penetrate her from below.
  • The plus: In this position, the G-spot is particularly irritated. Tip: If it presses their knees firmly against each other, you will feel even more pleasure!

10th place: The steadfast one

Sex standing up: He stands behind here and presses his pelvis firmly against her bottom. He penetrates her from behind, holding her pelvis in place to control his movements. For more balance, she can lean forward on a table. Or si

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