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Disgusting? No! Everything you need to know about the sex fetish

What is not possible for some during sex, is pure pleasure for others. A sex fetish in which the spirits split: Golden Shower.

Contents

  1. What is a Golden Shower?
  2. Where does the Golden Shower end up?
  3. Why Golden Shower?
  4. Where should the Golden Shower take place?
  5. Just pee on it? These are the rules for the Golden Shower

What is a Golden Shower?

Golden Shower means nothing else than that one partner is poking at the other to increase sexual desire. This sex fetish is also called champagne irradiation or urophilism (preference for urine).

Where does the Golden Shower end up?

Golden Shower lovers find it exciting when they urinate on their partner or are themselves hit by the urine stream – where exactly depends on personal preferences. Some like it when the golden shower runs down the body, others prefer to get it directly into the mouth.

Why Golden Shower?

For most people, the fascination for the Golden Shower is connected with the game of power and submission. The passive, submissive partner, the masochist, enjoys giving up control and being pissed on. The active partner with a tendency to sadism finds domination particularly exciting. Many people not only feel the urination itself, but also the taste and smell very pleasurable.

Where should the Golden Shower take place?

One thing is clear: urine never ends up where it should. So you should lay out your bed (or other furniture with textiles) with foil beforehand. Otherwise you simply go straight to the shower or bathtub – nothing can go wrong then.

Just pee on it? These are the rules for the Golden Shower

The sex fetish with the Golden Shower has its origin in the BDSM scene and accordingly the same rules apply here as with bondage games and Co. – in other words: always with mutual agreement. So it must be clear that the partner is also ready for the Golden Shower. The best thing to do is to make a Safeword just in case.

Also important to know: Lust or not, urine is a “waste product”, so the urinating partner should be healthy. Although urea is usually sterile, this only applies if you don’t have any health problems. Especially hepatitis B and some venereal diseases can be transmitted so quickly. The best thing to do before your Golden Showe experiment is a health check with your doctor – you don’t have to tell him what you’re going to do afterwards…

What is a Golden Shower?

What is an absolute no-go during sex for some, means total ecstasy for others. A very delicate sex fetish is called Golden Shower. You always wanted to know what that is? Here we explain what lies behind the practice.

This is what you mean by Golden Shower

Golden Shower is a sexual practice in which you pee on your partner or are pissed on by your partner. This practice is also known as champagne irradiation and is also called urophilism (the preference for urine).

Lovers of this practice find it sexually exciting to urinate on the partner or to receive the urine. Some people like to take in urine orally or feel it all over their body. The fascination lies in playing with power and submission. As a submissive part or masochist one enjoys being pissed on and with a predisposition to sadism the excitement consists in dominating and humiliating the other. Also the smell and taste of the urine is felt by many as very pleasant and lustful.

In the BDSM scene, of course, the rule of mutual agreement applies. Urophilists (as urine lovers call themselves) easily find like-minded people within the community and agree on corresponding practices and integrate this into their role-plays. Outside the scene it is not easy to find a partner who prefers a Golden Shower or is willing to try one out. Here, of course, the principle of mutual agreement applies.

The Golden Shower is only one of many fetishes in the BDSM. Have you become curious? Then discover more pleasurable practices here.

This is what you should know about the execution of the Golden Shower

You could imagine trying out the Golden Shower or did your partner give you the idea? Then I would like to give you some things on the way, which you should consider thereby.

#1 Agreement

It is very important that you make the whole thing consensual. If your partner has been wanting you to pee on him for a long time and it is absolutely unpleasant for you, then you have to tell him that. It is important that you are honest and do not humiliate yourself for his sake if that goes against your grain. On the other hand, you should accept it if your partner doesn’t want to try it out. Everyone has certain limits in bed.

#2 Health

Urine consists of waste products from the human body. They are excreted because humans no longer need them. Urea is usually sterile and should not cause major damage to health if it is taken in again. However, it is also not advisable to drink large amounts of it. Doctors advise against drinking the urine of sick people. People infected with hepatitis B can pass on the disease in this way. In naturopathy there are followers of urine therapy who hope that regular drinking of urine will cure various ailments. However, this is not medically proven. In general, you should only practice this practice if both of you are healthy and have no sexually transmitted diseases.

#3 Implementation

If you decide with your partner to implement the Golden Shower, you should either do so in the bathroom or cover your bed accordingly well with foil or a waterproof sheet*. Latex is also suitable. It is very popular in the scene because it exudes a great fascination. It is also easy to rinse off. Expect some things to go wrong and end up over the bed and on the floor. So as a beginner you might want to try it out in the shower first. There is no danger of ruining valuable carpet here. For a start, you might also be fascinated by watching each other urinate.

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Golden Shower in the media

In January 2017, Donald Trump was also confronted with the term. Shortly before his inauguration as President of the United States of America, a spy report was published stating that during a business visit to Russia in 2013 he allegedly paid prostitutes for pee sex games in his hotel room at Ritz-Carlton.

Carrie Bradshaw (Sarah Jessica Parker) also wrote the column “To Pee Or Not To Pee?” in the series “Sex and the City” after a brief affair with a politician. (peeing or not peeing) about the fetish. When her new Beau expressed the wish to get pissed on by Carrie, she decided against it and was therefore promptly dumped by her boyfriend.

Sex fetishes like the Golden Shower are not everyone’s cup of tea. Many find this practice rather turning off and unnatural. Within the fetish scene, however, such practices are considered perfectly normal. If you are single and looking for new adventures, you will surely find like-minded people in your city in online forums. If you’re in a relationship, there’s no reason why you shouldn’t try it if your partner is open to it and agrees.

Watersports, Golden Showers or Golden Sparkling Waters

Mr President, I would like to talk to you today about, say, a delicate subject. Water Sports, NS, Wet Games, Golden Showers, Pee Games. I have to admit that I first asked myself if a column in the context of this magazine would not go too far. After all, you are here on the GQ website and are not holding an old edition of the “Happy Weekend” in your hands. But then I thought about how many men already told me about their preference for such games. No freaks. But men like you. Bankers, CEOs, students, editors, mechatronics engineers and music managers. So I thought to myself: Let’s just try it out. If you have an affinity for golden showers, I will provide you with a little Beginner’s Guide. And when you become dirty, just stop reading and click here.

I couldn’t understand for a long time that it excites people to include urine in their love play. “It is yellow, makes everything wet and uncomfortable and stinks. My personal attitude towards it to this day. But the curiosity about everything that is offside and forbidden, as well as encounters with people who can’t imagine anything more beautiful than to roll over their partner or let themselves be struck up, made sure that I – if not enthusiasm – at least developed understanding for this fetish.

A bit forbidden

The preference for urine has many names. Scientists speak of urophilism or undinism. If even the swallowing of urine excites, the whole thing is called urophagy.

But for many it is not just a matter of lukewarm water. My friend Adrian, for example, turns it on by watching women pee in the wild, in the park or at festivals. “This crouched posture has something so vulnerable that I like it very much,” Adrian once enthused about me, and for the first time I was able to get almost a bit of romance out of the subject of golden showers.

Another variation that I find hot, at least in theory, is called “Female Desperation” and describes the desperation of a woman who has to pee but has no opportunity to do so. Because she’s stuck in traffic with her car or waiting for her favourite act at the “Rock am Ring” in front of the Main Stage. And then, when the pressure gets too high, they can’t help but just let it run. Many a fan of this fetish is also not interested in wetting himself, but in the aforementioned despair in the face of the woman, the moment she suspects that she will not be able to endure it much longer. To the shame of having to do something forbidden at once. And to watch the inner misery turn into relief, into the happiness of the piss that all of us know.

This is how you approach the golden shower games

Everything sounds exciting, but would you like to have some concrete tips for the first NS session with your sweetheart? Well, please:

  1. as unromantic as it sounds: tell your partner in advance exactly what you like about Water Sports. Would you like to pee on her or the other way around? Do you just want to watch her urinate? Whatever it is, ask her for permission in advance. Believe me, anyone who pisses on me out of nowhere will first be kicked out on edge and then be banned for life.
  2. Please do NOT pee into the sensual bubble bath for two, unless our partner has expressly asked for it.
  3. you should make the first attempts absolutely in the shower or however in the fresh air. Because a fully shipped bed sheet and a damp mattress are anything but hot.
  4. drink plenty of water beforehand, at least 1.5 litres, preferably water. This ensures sufficient pressure on the bladder. In addition, it dilutes the urine and takes away its strong smell.
  5. speaking of which: Morning urine is taboo! Much too strict. Eew. Only suitable for people with Only suitable for people with the corresponding fetish.
  6. should the active role irritate you: Do not put yourself under pressure. Many find it difficult to let it run before the partner. That is quite natural. Take a shower together, listen to the crackling of the water, relax and then … let it go!

If your partner has approached you with a corresponding desire for NS-games, you should try out in which role you feel most comfortable. And if you notice that mutual wetting is so nothing at all for you, that is also okay. Talk to your partner about it and be honest. Maybe you just leave the bathroom for a while.

5 sex positions you really have to trust each other for

The more comfortable you feel with a partner, the more you can heat up the bed stories with a little experimentation. Haven’t we all been embarrassed by one or two things in bed? First dirty-talk attempts, noises that are more reminiscent of the toilet than of wicked-sexy film scenes, and positions that end in calf cramps.

However, the fact that Dirty Talk and a change of position have been tried at all speaks for a certain amount of mutual trust and the necessary ability to let go. Who can then laugh about such “misadventures” with each other, is probably ready for the following sex positions.

The disc chest

Support the ground with your hands while your partner lifts his legs at the ankles and penetrates from behind. Who a. in view of the lurch, which one discovers in this head-down position under the bed, can repress the thought of vacuuming in the second and b. no problem with being made an object, a new, orgiastic-good world is open to him.

The Foot-Job

The foot fetish counterpart to the hand-job, instead of the hands is “worked” with the soles of the feet – and this fetish is not so rare! Many pendants don’t even value clean, freshly pedicured feet. So a couple who dare to play a few foot games is on the right track. Requirements: Lubricant gel and well-trained calf muscles.

The Golden Shower

We say it straightforward: The idea of urinating on one’s partner is not everyone’s cup of tea – nor does it have to be. But who doesn’t find the idea completely absurd for himself and his counterpart – why not? In any case, it is a sign that you are very close to each other and that nothing is embarrassing in front of each other. 4.

The spider

  • From the construction equipment (point 1) to the insect: The spider is probably one of the weirdest sex positions humans have ever thought of! It needs an above-average level of fitness, but instead guarantees that you have something to laugh about.
  • That’s how it works: The partner on all fours, but belly up, you are in the same position above him. And so you crawl into the sunset together. Whoever survives this position without strains and cramps cannot be shaken by anything in a relationship.

 The Kiss of Aphrodite

A position for sex without male participation. Why you need a good portion of trust here? Three words: threesome, position 69, a strap-on dildo.

So if you want to know how great the mutual trust, the respect for individual limits and the joy of experimentation are, take action. If none of the participants completely unravels or doesn’t get over themselves with laughter, then it looks good. For a partnership for life. Or at least for damn good sex.

The top 10 positions for woman’s orgasm

Fun with the best positions for YOU! We have chosen the top 10 orgasm guarantors for women among the most popular positions from the Kamasutra. Let’s get started – those who master these positions experience the orgasm especially intensively.

The Kamasutra is, by the way, one of the most influential works in world history. Originally written in Sanskrit, over the years it has been translated into almost every language in the world. No wonder, after all, the Kamasutra contains detailed instructions on erotic positions.

Do not panic: Contrary to their reputation, Kamasutra postures are not always complicated! We assure you: The postures we have chosen for you can be performed by anyone – and enjoyed. Feeling of pleasure guaranteed! So don’t wait any longer: Here’s the exact description of the best positions for you!

1st place: The leg extension

The woman lies on her back and puts one leg on the shoulder of her partner. The man kneels in front of her and sits on her outstretched leg. He penetrates her while holding her leg on his shoulder with one hand.
The woman has both hands free and can stroke herself or her partner as she pleases. And he enjoys the sight…

2nd place: The 8 number

  • This position resembles the missionary. But the detail, in this case movement, is what matters, and that is what she is allowed to determine here!
  • The woman lies on her back with her legs slightly bent and open. He lies over her and leans on his outstretched arms.
  • While he penetrates her, she directs his hip movements with her hands, so that he makes lustful circles of 8 in her. This is not only erotic, but also romantic, because the lying 8 symbolizes infinity…
  • Tip: a pillow under her bottom helps him to penetrate her more easily.

3rd place: The seesaw

Also in this Kamasutra position the woman has the reins in her hand, but also he can have a say.

The man sits on the floor (or a firm mattress!), one leg is stretched out, the other slightly bent to keep the balance better.

The woman sits on him so that he can penetrate her. While she makes lustful movements with her hips, he holds her at her bottom to reach the deep penetration of his penis. The little plus: he can kiss her breasts…

4th place: The house number

  • She lies on her back with her legs bent. He kneels over her, between her legs. Now she lifts her hip and clings to his hips with her legs crossed so that he can penetrate her.
  • The plus: This position is very intense for her, as it allows him to penetrate particularly deeply. She moves her hip like a wave, sometimes in one direction, sometimes in the other…

5th place: The clip

  • He lies on his back with his legs outstretched and closed. She sits on him and leans her upper body backwards, supporting herself with her hands.
  • In this sex position, the woman determines the rhythm with her pelvic movements.
  • The man can enjoy the sight of her breasts and stimulate her clitoris with his free hands.

6th place: The Nirvana

Be lies with outstretched legs on the back, the arms lie outstretched over the head. He lies down on her and penetrates her. As he moves within her, she tenses all muscles, giving the arms to the upper bed frame. This intensifies the penetration effect and stimulates the clitoris naturally.

7th place: The butterfly

The woman lies on her back, her legs wide open. He kneels in front of her and lifts her legs slightly and holds her by her thighs. Now he can penetrate her with deep shocks and bring her to her climax. This position is exciting for him because none of her movements escape his gaze. And it’s a fun position for her because she can relax completely and enjoy his masculine power.

8th place: Safe

This is the famous missionary position: She lies on her back and spreads her legs. He lies down on her and penetrates her while she clings to him with her legs. In this position the partners can stroke each other to the climax.

9th place: The cartridge belt

  • She’s lying on her back with her legs bent. He kneels in front of her and pushes his thighs under her hip so that he can penetrate her from below.
  • The plus: In this position, the G-spot is particularly irritated. Tip: If it presses their knees firmly against each other, you will feel even more pleasure!

10th place: The steadfast one

Sex standing up: He stands behind here and presses his pelvis firmly against her bottom. He penetrates her from behind, holding her pelvis in place to control his movements. For more balance, she can lean forward on a table. Or si