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Why young men like older women

Mature women often prefer young men. But why is that? What do they like about them? Why can the combination work so well? We have dealt with these questions. In the following, we will explain what makes this relationship so attractive because of the greater age difference.

Mature women and young men – often afflicted with social prejudices

This relationship is often rejected within society. The reason for this is that a mature woman with a younger partner violates the idea of the given role of the sexes. An age difference of 10 years or more is usually only tolerated if it is the man who is older. If young women like older men, there are also reasons for this. Despite secret smiles, the man in this constellation is even envied by many men. Mature women and young men, this combination already raises more questions and doubts. But more and more young men are looking for established women, and in fact both sides have different advantages, for which there are even scientific explanations.

  1. The reason for the change in the image of women is that today’s modern women are emancipated and decide for themselves what is good for them, regardless of role patterns.
  2. In the past, the partner was supposed to be the provider and protector, but nowadays modern women have their feet firmly on the ground, are financially secure and have a profession, which now makes them independent of men.
  3. As a result, the selection criteria for partners have changed.

Mature women and young men – how do such relationships develop?

It is first and foremost a question of predisposition, preference and imprinting when young men are more attracted to mature women. Ultimately, there can be many reasons for this. Often there is talk of a “mother complex”, but this thesis could not be underlined. No young man wants to go to bed with his own mother unless there is a mental disorder requiring treatment. This is certainly not the reason for healthy young men. The older women have their attraction for young men in various respects, above all also in the erotic range. There is even a whole virtual reality industry around vr porn with older women.

The body of older women is softer and more feminine, which is very attractive to many men. In addition, mature women often have an attractive charisma, which young men often cannot resist. Both in life and in bed, they know what they want. Open-minded mature women have fun and experience sex. This makes them all the more interesting for young men who are not yet so experienced. Dealing with her own body is self-confident and erotic and they also like to take the initiative. Love between mature women and young men can become less complicated and more open. They enjoy the experience of the older partner. Many young men like it when the mature woman exercises a kind of dominance and takes what she wants.

Mature women and young men – attraction is mutual

Surveys have shown that the attraction between the two sexes is reciprocal. Many mature women have stated that they have flirted with younger men before or that they can imagine that well. At the same time, many young men also say that they have flirted with more mature women before or that it cannot be ruled out. Age does not generally play a role for the majority of women and men.

  • The fact that men have to be older and older, this thesis is no longer up-to-date and long outdated. Mature women like to hear compliments from younger men.
  • They find them flattering. They then like to return the compliment. Many young men say that mature women give them special access to another, new world.
  • Those who now believe that older women take everyone they can have are very wrong.
  • Mature women know exactly what they want. Such relationships can work very well in everyday life, because affection, love, getting along and fitting together do not have much to do with old age after all.

Mature women and young men – the advantages

These constellations broaden the horizon and enrich the wealth of experience. In return, mature women expect an interesting conversation partner who has a lot of humour and is a gentleman. In addition, he should be self-confident, because this makes him attractive and sexy. Young men, on the other hand, inspire with their advantages. They grew up with emancipated mothers, live equal rights, of course get involved and surprise with spontaneous ideas. Young men inspire with their flexibility. Mature women enjoy the impartiality and freedom. They enjoy a varied, exciting life with young men. Mature women also have some character and human advantages over younger women. Most of them have already had relationships, so they are more experienced and relaxed with regard to the relationship. They are calmer and more relaxed in dealing with conflicts. Compared to many young women, they see many things less closely. They are more accessible and understanding towards the shortcomings of a man. These are all good conditions for harmony within the relationship.

When you think of a relationship with a greater age difference, the first thing you usually think of is the cliché of a mature man and a much younger woman. This relationship concept is widespread, but of course it also works the other way around. More and more mature women want young men at their side. Ultimately, everyone should be able to decide for themselves where their preferences lie. All relationships can function because it always depends on what is made of them. Couples with greater age differences should distance themselves from outrageous statements.

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Mature women like younger men

Mature women like younger men – this is not new! But the attraction is based on reciprocity. This is the result of a recent survey commissioned by “AXE“.

Thus per cent of the asked women between 30 and 45 years have flirted already times with a younger man or can imagine this well and each second man between 18 and 26 years dared already times a flirt with an older woman or can imagine this. In general, age plays no role for a large majority of women (78%) and young men (61%).

“The idea that men basically have to be older is outdated and no longer up to date,” says single and relationship expert Eric Hegmann.

Women especially like to hear compliments from the mouth of a younger man. 74 percent of the women interviewed said that they find a compliment from a younger man flattering. 15 percent even prefer this to a compliment from a man of the same age or older. And women should not be afraid to return the compliment. 72 percent of 18- to 26-year-old men would also find this positive.

Many factors are attractive about older women

58 percent of the interviewed men say that older women give them access to a new world. This is also confirmed by Eric Hegmann: “Such constellations enrich the wealth of experience and broaden both horizon and passion.

Above all, however, the women themselves are fascinating: Erotic, according to 59% of the men surveyed, is their self-confident handling of their bodies and preferences, their humour (50%) and when they take the initiative (45%).

What should a young man bring to impress an experienced woman?

89 percent of women expect an interesting conversational partner, 78 percent a man with a sense of humour and one in two (55 percent) likes to go out with a gentleman. No wonder younger men can get a little nervous: Every third person who would be attracted to flirting with an older woman but has not yet put this into practice is unsure about how to behave towards older women and 30% think they have no chance at all.

For the first step expert Hegmann recommends no shyness: Young men should not be so hesitant. The opposite sex only waits for the first step – regardless of age. Courage makes you attractive, because self-confidence is sexy”.

Why Older Women Are Hotter Than Teens

Older women are sexy. I know that since I started an affair with my department manager as an apprentice. Now I myself am as old as she was then and still don’t like young things.

Why? Quite simply: Ask. Quite simple: Imagine an 18-year-old. She is dressed in nothing but a towel and is just coming out of the shower with wet hair. She loosens the towel and dries her wet curls. Then she sits down next to you on the bed, the towel slides up slightly, giving a glimpse of her inner thighs. She smiles at you and says: “My English course instructor is really a complete idiot”. That’s their right. That’s her world of experience. But do you want to hear something like that? I’d rather look at a few laughing or stomach wrinkles.

Is that why I’m a perverse freak? Rather not. The British channel BBC asked 120,000 men which criteria play a role for them when choosing a partner. It turned out that for men, intelligence is the most important factor in choosing a partner. Behind them are appearance and a sense of humour. I don’t think that only applies to Englishmen. Or is your girlfriend rarely stupid?

The second spring?

Many older men who love young women don’t just appreciate their looks. They enjoy much more that the girls are so fresh and fresh and that you can do such crazy things with them. I can’t understand that either. I don’t want to be thrown into a fountain under a full moon in a juvenile carelessness, crazy and romantic anymore, because that’s what they do in Hollywood movies. Because I won’t be dry again in the next scene, unlike in the movies. And that’s why I catch a terrible cold. I had a youth. I don’t need another one.

But I do not only decide against young girls. I also choose older women. I appreciate a lot of their qualities:

For example, they usually know what they want. When older women have decided to sleep with you, they usually do the same. This is also proven by Surveys: Women over the age of 40 want to have sex. Their longing for sex does not diminish with age: 51 percent of the over 40s have sex at least once a week. Five percent even want to have sex every day. They are also more determined. “At 40, women know what they like and don’t like when they have sex,” says Hamburg psychologist Michael Thiel.

Even after sex, experienced women know what men want

A woman over 40 will never wake you up in the middle of the night to ask “What are you thinking? She is glad that she gets enough sleep. At forty, going through the night is finally a decision that can decide about the whole weekly form.

I could go a little further now, but it always comes down to one thing:

  1. young girls are a therapy
  2. older women a pleasure

Even with this opinion I am not alone: The real problem with age eroticism is the biological problem of men over 40. Their body produces less and less testosterone. The result: They have less and less desire for sex. Among psychologists there is therefore a surprising theory: older men look for the young things because they are just discovering their sexuality. Above all, they want to admire the older men. And that’s why they don’t demand sex so often.

What makes a real Milf?

The other day a friend of mine, who for a few years now hasn’t got two more years left, so she’s in her thirties, told me that she had such a moment with an 18-year-old. In a bar, smoking, drinking, having conversation. He looked at her all the time so, well, fascinated and couldn’t hide a certain love-interest.

But now he didn’t hit on her directly. He was too shy for that. But he would have accepted an offer from her side immediately. Immediately. It could be that he secretly wished for nothing more than that this hot, interesting woman in her mid-30s would take him by the hand and take him home for the night. And maybe for a few more nights. First of all, you could feel that, my friend says. And secondly, the big brother of this 18-year-old told her unmistakably the next day: “He thought you were hot as a rat.

That’s a bit unusual, because the norm is rather the opposite situation:

  • Older boys like younger girls.
  • Younger girls like older boys.
  • And also in general: Old men have a greater attractiveness potential than old women. But somehow I still have the feeling that this 18-year-old described above is not an isolated case. There is some erotic crackling between young types and older women. And we haven’t quite understood them yet.

The simple answer on your part would be now: WTF you sexist girls, we too have the right to a counterpart to your Bill Murray longing! But is it really that simple? Can it be explained so simply? We have the feeling that something else is resonating. We think among other things of the book “The Reader”. We feel on your side a somewhat atypical longing for passivity and existence as a willing subject, an almost masochistic-erotic lust for being a braver and hesitant. At least for a while. Because that’s also interesting: I know the combination of young type and older woman more from affairs than from long-term relationships.

And then there’s the impression that such a relationship with an older woman is also a kind of accolade for you. You see: Hm! You see: It doesn’t really fit together very well for us. Or how? But how now? Enlighten, please! Dear girls, it’s good that you ask. The subject is actually a bit more complex, works on several levels and depends on the age. So from ours. And you’re already poking around in the fog.

Rough rule of thumb first

  • Five years older always works.
  • Ten years older goes to 30 always and then slowly becomes a matter of taste.
  • 20 years older becomes at the latest starting from 20 clear taste thing.

A matter of taste is value-free

And “always goes” changes its meaning with age. Still ours. Because: You have to try to beam yourself into such an 18-year-old. With a little luck, he just swapped his spots for a little bit of beard. Probably one of them isn’t really, really gone yet, and the other one isn’t really, really there. Which in total results in a lot of sebum on his face.

Probably he already had some sex, but with a bit of bad luck he hasn’t had it yet. And if he already had sex, we probably also talk about a lucky strike – he already had a charisma that was sovereign/net/convinced/attractive/cool/sweet enough to please you. But he doesn’t know exactly what he did right for it now (he doesn’t really know later either, but maybe a little bit more).

So he is usually still half-finished. And still about two years behind you in development. And if, because he matured earlier, he has already opened up, he can usually still remember the feeling of being behind. Ergo: shy.

And now he’s standing there, trying to smoke confidently and drink beer from the bottle, and he’s looking at this woman who towers over him in sexual and life experience. Yes, what do you mean?! She radiates that after all. And how. And in such an unequal relationship even more. She would also be so “hot as a rat” (maybe you have to use the word more often again!). But it is of course more. It would be, if it actually took him with it, the absolute, pure assurance of his near or possibly even already completed maturity. The final proof: the boys’ league is over – from here on men’s tennis, bitches!

The principle works loosely for a few years

And yes, there may already be traces of “The Reader”. “Passivity and existence as a willing subject” – for my sake. Besides, there’s really something to learn from such a rat-sharp (yes, you have to use it more often again) mid-thirties. But the coming-of-age element is bigger. So that would be the 18-year-old. And actually, with the greater experience we are looking for in older women, this can also be raised to a higher age group. Only with a different background. Experience makes everything easier. Or better: more experienced. Especially in interpersonal relationships.

And there above all the non-binding: “I know the combination of young type and older woman more from affairs than from long-term relationships,” you wrote. I think the observation is true. And I don’t think it’s a coincidence. Probably, when we are a little older, we usually look for noncommitment in an older woman. Because it seems less complicated. Because the codes are clearer. At least we think so. At 35 you know that not every barflirt has to become a relationship immediately. And you are not afraid to say that clearly.

And when you’re 40, let’s hope you’re not looking for a child’s father when you’re picking up a 25-year-old. But fun. And fun is great. “The older the berry, the sweeter the juice”, raps the more prolific brother from “The Empire” about his Cougar girlfriend (played by Naomi Campbell). Experience. Routine. Fun. Fun. We want that at least once. We want to believe that at least.

Of course we are only in the cosmos “Bars and smoking and bottled beer and stuff”. Correct relationships are something completely different again. We’d have to negotiate them separately again. But you don’t necessarily want to marry Bill Murray, do you?

Fascination MILF: That’s why men like mature women

Many men like older women. Is it the lead in experience that makes more mature women so attractive to men? Why MILFS many men the head twist.

Young men are to the pastime, more mature Ladys for enjoying. This opinion divides men, who estimate experienced ladies in the bed. According to an inquiry on behalf of AXE each second man between 18 and 26 years flirted already once with an older woman or can imagine with it more. Many of the most famous top models belong in the category MILF (Mother I Like to F***) – also called “Cougar”.

  • Model and beauty ideal Cindy Crawford even considers the name MILF a compliment for mature women like her.
  • At least since the video for Fergie’s song “M.I.L.F.$” everyone has understood the message: MILFs are extra sexy.

We have 5 good reasons why older ladies are more desirable than fresh meat.

1. advantage of a MILF: She knows exactly what she wants.

An older woman has both feet on the ground. She has already sufficiently explored herself and her sex life so that she knows exactly what she likes. She says what she wants, rejects what she doesn’t like and demands what does her good. Her mature self-confidence ensures that she no longer has to prove herself against competitors, as she did at a young age. She knows her market value – which is high.

2. advantage of a MILF: she can enjoy

An experienced woman is no longer under pressure to prove herself during sex. She can surrender and enjoy herself and plays for the lover less often than a young woman. In this way she also relieves her partner of the pressure to perform during sex. She is not ashamed to take a hand and talks openly about her preferences and fantasies. The orgasm ability of a woman is by the way highest to mid 40.

3. advantage of a MILF: she knows where to touch

An advanced age for a woman also means that she has usually had sex several times. With different sexual partners she was able to test and perfect techniques. It is not a rumour that older women often have special handles and tongue games on them that catapult a man immediately into the sky of lust.

4. advantage of a MILF: it bursts with lust

If the MILF lives in a longer partnership, she is quite probably a bit sexually starved. In spite of a lack of sex, she naturally feels like it. She is eager for compliments and likes to indulge in a passionate affair with skin and hair. Then the pleasure bomb really bursts!

5. advantage of a MILF: it does not clamp

The Cougar is not about a long-term commitment or even family planning. The mature woman wants to be pampered and pass on her passion – nothing more. Spontaneous adventures and experiments are also possible.